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Top 5 rules of a happy everlasting love

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February 13, 2015

The secret of a happy heart is having a functional love life. Either with your partner, your cat or your career, it has to work on both sides. No one said it was easy to understand love; there were countless music artists and poets that tried to define it and came up to the same conclusion: love completes you in many different aspects and levels. In my vast experience so far, I’ve learned that you can’t mess with your heart, because it will break you in ways you can’t imagine. Better leave it be, and meanwhile, focus on my top 5 tips on increasing your chance to a happy everlasting love:

#1. My mantra has always been that everyone is entitled to my own opinion, but in love you can’t live by the same rule. I’ve learned it the hard way. Instead, try to understand your partner and put yourself in his shoes for a bit; it won’t hurt, trust me. Listening is key. Acting accordingly is pure bliss.

#2. Arguments come and go, sometimes they like to linger more than you wish for, but try to discuss any issue until you’ve said everything that was on your mind. Compromise if you can and hug more. Remember why you loved him/her on the first place and don’t take each other for granted.

#3. Communicate, never grow apart. You can’t possibly imagine how much it means for the right partner to show an interest in what you do/feel/want. Be the shoulder to lean on. Through thick and thin, right?

#4. Give space to each other, suffocating your partner is the worst thing in my book. Learn to enjoy things separately, such as a hobby, or a night out with your friends. This doesn’t jeopardize the relationship as long as there is trust and limits.

#5. The most important thing, for me at least, is being sincere with each other. Lying has never brought anything good, except when there’s a surprise involved. A good one.

These rules might seem simple, and there are so many out there, but if you find the formula that works for you, than you are on the right track to a great life. Enjoy!

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